Obeying God is always right even if that means disobeying others. We should live in accordance with the laws of men as closely as we can but not by disobeying the Lord.
We have to be careful not to hold onto unreasonable anger which can easily develop into hatred. Wrath can easily cause our downfall. It’s better to be able to control ourselves than to be able to control others.
And we must not allow our upbringings or our circumstances to hinder our spiritual growth.